The end of the school year is a bittersweet time for teachers. It’s satisfying to bring to an end a year of hard work. That engenders a feeling of accomplishment, of completion. But it’s always sad, because very soon, our classes will meet for the final time. Each class with its unique personality, comprised of the unique personalities of each of you, will die, never to be reborn.
That understanding always leaves me with a sense of loss. Soon, I’ll rise in the morning and realize I can no longer look forward to seeing each of you every day. It’s like losing an old, trusted, beloved friend, many times over.
Does this surprise you? You didn’t know I felt that way about you? I do, and so do all dedicated teachers.
Teaching is not about the money. It’s about being a part of something bigger than oneself, something with the potential to change lives, to build a better future. It’s about giving of yourself that others might become more than they are, that they might build bigger, better, more wrinkly brains.
Most of all, it’s about the sheer wonder of having a hand in your growth. I don’t mean physical growth—though that’s always amazing and often, surprising—but the intellectual and emotional growth the study of literature and writing makes possible.
I delight in each shy, quiet girl who becomes confident and outgoing, more woman than girl. I take great pleasure in each rambunctious boy that discovers that reading might not be so bad after all, and that he might even like poetry.
By the way guys, I understand you can’t really admit that out loud. As you become more man than boy that will get easier, but for now, it will be our secret. And I smile with satisfaction at each student who remembers that “there is a tide,” means to take advantage of one’s opportunities. It’s always good to carry a little Shakespeare with us.
All year I worried that I was not exposing you to enough great literature. I worried that I was not giving you sufficient opportunity to write, and that I was not writing back to you with sufficient understanding and insight, or as often as I should. I worried that I wasn’t adequate to the task with which your parents entrusted me: providing the best educational opportunity I could manage. I seem to have less time to do that every year, but I never stop trying.
As I look back on this year, at missed opportunities, and at what might have been, I see your faces, and I smile, because I know you’re going to be OK.
Do you know what great kids you are? Every day I read about the horrors of kids in schools elsewhere in the nation, and then I look at you as we start each class. You’re smart, polite, caring, and good to each other, and of course, to me. I’m proud of you; we all are, not just for your academic accomplishments, but for who you are, for your everyday tender mercies.
As I’ve told you from our first day together, school is about more than the materials we study. You maintained portfolios to get into the habit of dealing with small details, because life is mostly about getting small things right. You were required to learn to listen and to be quiet at the appropriate times because that too is what life is about. You studied vocabulary because words are thoughts made real, and you needed to become more than you were at the beginning of the year. Benjamin Franklin was right: you shouldn’t squander time, because that’s what life is made of.
You remember that daily saying, don’t you? We did daily sayings because you needed to learn to think, to see the important lessons in the small things of life, because that’s where most of them are waiting to be found.
Everything we did, from “Name That Tune” on Fridays, to “Talk Like A Pirate Day,” to every writing assignment, had a purpose: to help you build skills, to help you become a more effective and competent human being. Someday, you’ll understand why we did some assignments you didn’t particularly appreciate at the time. You may not, but you’ll be better for the experience anyway. That’s because part of what we did was to stress you, to make you think, to work and to accomplish new things, paragraph by paragraph, essay by essay. That’s how we grow, become adults, become more than we were on the first day we entered a classroom, wondering what kind of lunatic this English teacher would turn out to be.
When I taught earnest young men and women to be police officers, I used to tell them about the seven magic words: “please, thank you,” and “you are under arrest.” You don’t need the last four magic words, at least not right now, but we emphasized the first three because being polite is also what life is about. Some of you even learned that it’s possible to survive for 50 minutes at a time without manipulating a cell phone or going into texting withdrawal.
And as Morrie Schwartz said, the most important thing you learned is the necessity of paying attention, a lesson most of you only began in earnest this year, and if you’re wise, will work toward the rest of your life. Did you hear what I just said? Ha ha! That’s a little English teacher joke!
You’ll have many other teachers during your final two years of high school, and I know many of you won’t stop by to say hello. I understand. It’s time for you to move on. That too is a part of life. You’ve learned what you can from me and it’s time to learn from others. If I did it right, you’ll be better able to learn from them. You’ll be as important to them as you are to me, but my classroom door is always open to you.
Before I close this final lesson, a few questions (you could see that coming, couldn’t you?): Did you pay attention as often and as fully as you should? Did you take full advantage of your learning opportunities? Were you as kind and helpful to others as you could and should have been? Did you decide, like me, to approach each day happy and smiling? Your success in this class depended upon on it; so will your success in life (did you notice how I used that semicolon?).
It has been an honor and pleasure to be your teacher this year.
Thanks for reading this final assignment, and for being such great kids. I’ll miss you more than you know.
Remember what Morrie said:
Love wins; love always wins.
Be on the winning side.
:-)
I will visit you as often as I can in the next two years. I will miss you being my favorite teacher and favorite English teacher.
I will miss you then next two years Mr.McDaniel I will have to come visit you and I will miss having the best English teacher ever
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I’ll miss you too mr McDaniel
Mr.McDaniel you are a super cool teacher and I wish I could have more teachers like you! I will defiantly come stop by your room next year and say hello! Thanks for being a great teacher!
Your’re a great teacher Mr. McDaniel…… have a good one :)
Your a great teacher MR.Mcdaniel I’ve learned a lot from you and even though I didn’t like this school I’ve always liked your class and couldn’t wait to go
This year was great! I wish all teachers could be like you. :)
Your’re an amazing teacher Mr. McDaniel. Thank you for teaching me what i needed to know for the year!
Mr. McDaniel I have had an amazing school year with you. You were my favorite teacher this year, and while I`m sure you get that a lot, just know you have truly touched my heart with your lessons, your daily sayings and your name that tunes. I have no real way of describing how “different” this class has been, but it also has been my most successful class this year. Thank you for all that you have taught us and I will always stop by when I can……If my name doesn’t appear for some strange reason this is Jacob Wylie
Dear Jacob:
It has been my pleasure!
It was a great year with you Mr. McDaniel! I’ll miss having you next year. You will always be my favorite English teacher (: I hope you have a great summer.
Thanks for being awesome, and such a great teacher!
Thank you Mr. McDaniel for being one of the greatest teachers I’ve ever had.
Mr. McDaniel,
This year has been exciting & a very big learning experience. You are by far my favorite English teacher & how you teach is very helpful. Thank you for everything.
Sincerely,
Samantha Roberts
thankyou for being such a good teacher. It was a good year
This has been an amazing year. You made learning a whole lot easier and better. It was actually fun. I will miss you next year. I’ll try to stop by whenever I can. Its been an awesome journey with you this year.
This was by far my favorite class this year. I enjoyed every day of it. You were an excellent teacher and a ton of fun. I believe I have become a much stronger writer thanks to this class.Thank you so much for everything you’ve done this year. I hope you have a great summer.
I did pay attention as often as I should. I learned lots of new things. I took advantage by doing a lot of extra credit things to help me get my grade where I wanted it to be. I was kind to others, and when they needed help I helped them. Everyone always tells me I’m always smiling, so I guess I have accomplished my strategy well.
Mr. McDaniel, you are by far the best English teacher I’ve ever had, and my favorite teacher this year. I hope to have more classes like yours in these next 2 years!
I am really going to miss being your (obviously favorite) student! At the beginning of the year I was worried about this class, but it ended up being one of my favorites! I’ll come visit occasionally the next 2 years!
Dear Kayla:
Well, as long as it’s not too much trouble…